hi fellow trans friends:).

i used to be so upset and frustrated whenever someone called me a girl or she or miss. i used to go to sleep crying because i just... felt like an imposter and i felt like something was wrong with me.

sometimes, i still feel like that. but, somewhere along the way, i noticed something. it doesnt what other people say. yeah, sure, it would be super nice and validating to be called a boy, but its okay if they ignore me and calls me their daughter. because *i* know im a guy. i know im a son and i know that ill be a husband and a sir and a mr. and soon, it wont matter what people say about me now because soon ill have the money and the freedom to do whatever i want to so that others know im a son and a husband and a sir and a mr.

i have had this in my notes forrr about a week now? i finally put it into words and whenever i feel like crying because of something like this, i read it and i thought maybe it would help for other trans guys:) and the same thing applies to trans girls! no matter what anyone says, only you know who you are and its up to you to not let what other people think get to you <3