Fighting

Me and landon got in a fight, i came home from a walk and he seemed upset so I was asking what was wrong and he just said it was fine and not a big deal (ofc) and then usually he likes me to ask 2-3 times before he actually tells me whats wrong so I asked again and he said he was fine. I laid on the couch then went and sat on his lap and he was zoned out but he said he was fine in that moment. Anyways he gets up without saying anything and then i go into the room because he is redoing the bed. Not sure what happened but he ended up yelling at me. Also got into a fight about cheerio because he over punishes them but i dont like it but he doesnt let me have any control. He took him from my arms then took my phone and i told him to give it back and to not take my shit and he put it on a cat tree and acted like i was crazy for demanding it back. Anyways apparently all this was over a repost of a tiktok that I found cool and it was about like "if you cant spoil your girls shopping sprees and coffee theres a mf that will" i liked the wording but he said it made him feel like a bum, which is understandable but not the way it was supposed to go through :/ i told him i wanted him to leave and he refused and so after a lot of demanding he is now sleeping on the couch a guess. We talked about how he is a asshole and such and he doesnt care about it. This hurts so much i feel so disrespected in my own home and i feel so guilt tripped and crazy. I cant stand up for myself he never lets me. He apologized but like still :/ idk how i see him rn