neurodivergence and textures

my mom just bought two pairs of pajamas and asked my sister to pick between them, the one she didn't pick was going to go to me, well, she chose the pair that i liked. i liked it because it had lock, shock, barrel, and Oogie Boogie from Nightmare Before Christmas on it and it was a texture that didn't make me uncomfortable or overstimulated and the other was a random thing that isn't even from any series and it was a texture that i fucking hate, so, i started to cry because I hate that texture, my mom got mad because i "wasn't being grateful" until i told her that i didn't like that texture because it overstimulates me but she was still mad because i said it in a "disrespectful tone" but she says she thinks i might have audhd, which, she isn't wrong, i have a lot of autistic traits and i was diagnosed with ADHD when i was little, the doctor probably misdiagnosed me. but why do i wanna jump off a bridge rn??????????     p.s my mom is gonna return it and get a different one, she's a good mom. my dad, on the other hand, is an asshole.