"BE TOO NICE, SOME PEOPLE WILL TAKE YOU FOR A DUMMY"

Nice, kind, accepting, appreciative, and grateful are beautiful traits that makes people beautiful. These qualities are amazing to have, but they are VERY deceiving, and these traits really do getting taken for granted. People lie, betray, play, fuck over, overlook, gaslight, and abuse these qualities of people. Some people are too nice and let people keep mistreating these people or some people just break these qualities and become bad people. The sad part about this is everyone does it. From best friends to family members, or girlfriends/boyfriends. They all do it, but some do it more than others. I've experienced this pain throughout the spectrum. Best friends had/have played me before & now, family members have done it, and sadly my girlfriend has done it too. I'm no exception either, I have indulge in it too, but it hurts more when it comes from people you suppose to trust. I trust my friends, but how can I when some of them is playing you like you fucking stupid? Questions like that, makes it very hard to open up and to trust anyone because you don't want people to play you and take advantage of your great qualities. At the end, this world is full of givers & takers. To avoid all of this, you must ask yourself, are you a giver or taker?