nah, its pretty much set in stone now

im 100% cutting off or extremely distancing myself from my mum and the rest of my family after i move out. like as much as i hate my dad for having anger issues and being petty about me (and saying the n-word as a white guy for some reason), mum is a straight up gas-lighter who is hyper sensitive over criticism and has never, EVER apologised for anything shes done to me and treats me like a scapegoat. at least my dad says sorry. 

so, note to myself. remember, there is something very, very wrong with your family. no matter what they'll say to you, always remember that.