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Do you guys also always are afraid of being rude or annoying? Of talking to much or being seemingly apathetic? Of interrupting people or letting the talk die by not having spontaneous moments?
This happens always, with friends there is the fact that you have more chances (since you talk more with), but their companion is a lot more important and annoying them would be awful. With acquiantances there is less expectatives, but you dont get that many chances if you make something wrong.
Even when there is no sign that a error was made, it is still scary that I could do something rude/annoying without noticing it. Summarizing everything, overanalyzing sucks, even more because I dont know if I am actually doing it or if this time I did something wrong :/.
If there is someone actually reading this, hello, and I hope that at least this post wasnt annoying. And, of course, sorry if it was.
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vix
i struggle with this as-well! its safe to say even if you put yourself out there, later you end up overthinking everything you said when you're just chilling lol.
to be honest though, if a friend finds you annoying / cant handle you just being you, then maybe they arent a good match as a friend. ive found over time the key is just finding that one friend you can be yourself with frfr.
Thanks for the reply, exactly XD
You are right, sometimes some people just arent compatible, but I know that it still would be a situation in which I would think I did something wrong, despite rationally knowing that no one can "vibe" with 8 billion people :P
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