if a genie or any magical creature gave me three wishes

and if one of the rules was, "no wishes of any form that can involve you getting more than three wishes". you can be hyper, hyper specific. write down the whole procedure if you need to. you can sort of ask for more in one wish as long as it relates to all the previous wishes. the being giving wishes isnt going to trick you or make you be hyper specific. so like, if you ask to bring someone from the dead they aren't going to suffocate in a coffin. its just recommended you do so you can get EXACTLY what you want. 

here are mine. because i sat down to seriously think about this. this is exactly what i would write down

1) to have male features (flat chest, facial hair and low voice etc), but i will not have hair loss ever. 

2) the day after i make this wish, my two younger brothers (INSERT NAMES OF SAID SIBLINGS HERE), will not exist and will have never have existed. everyone's memories of them EXECPT me and my younger brother (INSERT NAME) will have never existed, every piece of evidence of their existence is erased expect for ours. my brother will not physically be able to talk about what happened and my non existent siblings with anyone expect me until he turns 18, for both of our protection. when he asks about what happened, he will immediately understand what took place today. im doing this because those monsters are the very center of my and starting point of everything wrong in my life, if i can get rid of them for good, my life will finally be okay. 

3) i want a kind humanoid fairy/angelic type being only visible to me, i want us to have a good connection like very good friends and for us to be able to speak telepathically and for them to tell me that going to be safe in sad scary times. gender, name  and other personality quirks can be randomized, as long as they are kind and loyal to me.