This situation sucks

so my friends came from home to visit me at college/bring me home for my birthday. Now i love my friends very dearly but god they stress me out. They are very go with the flow people, like can plan a vacation with no idea what they will do while there. I am very much the opposite . They were kinda annoying me early on by not being able to decide what they wanted to do, eventually it led to me just deciding. That isn't even my big issue, the big issues start with they way they spent $40 on groceries when they are staying at an airbnb for 2 nights. they claim its for " midnight snacks" (one of them goes to bed at 8 pm...) . Then, (for background i didn't eat all day planning on going out to eat with then while they are in a different town) they decide that they ate too much on the ride to my place/during hanging out , so we didn't get to go eat. Im pretty upset about this one because i was so hungry and that meant i had to order delivery. The final thing that pissed me off (which really shouldn't have there was just miscommunication) was how on the way home we were stopping by to see THEIR friend (we were gonna stop by where they work and get food) . To my knowledge this trip is about me. not yall. Ugh it was just really frustrating but now im anxious that the next couple days the vibes between me and them are gonna be off, this trip was supposed to be fun but also ITS MY BIRTHDAY :((( I haven't been able to have a normal birthday for 5 years and this one is about to be ruined all because im selfish and pissed off. Situation sucks. if yall have any advice lmk