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I want to be more social and meet more people, specifically online but I can't really put myself out there and meet people without them coming to me. I get super anxious and feel unable to talk to people even while online.
How to become more social?
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Tatsu0ni
I like to interact in blogs/ bulletins. That's a smaller way to just talk about something.
Go out explore some blogs, newer blogs. Post bulletins, comment on other bulletins.
Thanks i'll try it
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You can be a little awkward if you want, is not like people care anyway. Some persons can say the most stupid things over a silly comment.
Overall i say you can make short sentences to greet some people, find friendly people on places like this and such.
Examples:
Wassup? What's popping?
Idk. You can be a little creative if you want. Just dont over think it. Can be difficult for you, yeah, but you gotta remember that is not like you're saying something wrong.
I guess that's true thank you for your insight
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Nico
one method i use is to think as strangers a people you will never see again in your life.
or people who just dont care. It takes the pressure of trying to impress other people or whatever
I'm trying to make friends and I'm insanely terrified of embarrassment, I get what you're saying but I'm too self conscious to really apply it.
by Tapetal; ; Report
You can always try to find someone who is constantly friendly.
Now, im not mister popular here, but whenever i get introduced to a new community or whatever, i try to stick to the more outgoing people, and its a matter of time before i get confident enough in the friend group
if you struggle to much, there are some exercises you can do to try to be less shy about things. like small talk random people or whatevs.
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Alright thank you for the advice.
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