Ok so i am in college living with three other roommates. In our apartment, we also have a kitchen. I have provided the pans. My roommates are all super close with each other and barley ever talk to me. On February 22, one of my roommates had texted in the group chat if we could all start doing our dishes after using them as we don't have enough space for washing or drying them. We had all agreed that this would be ok. Fast forward, particularly tonight, they had made rice and some type of sauce. After eating, they had not cleaned up their mess and left the apartment. I left my room to go make food for myself only to find the mess that they had left. I am actually super upset about this as it is not the first time since the 22nd of them not following this rule but also i am super fucking hungry.
I want to bring up this issue to them but they already don't favor me and i fear it will feel like a 3 v 1. I don't know if I should reply to the text (if i do what do i even day) or if i should confront them in person or if i just say nothing at all. I really am unsure of what to do. My mother suggested that i take away the pots, pans, and bowls that are all mine so that they cannot use them but i dont think that would really fix my issue of them leaving dishes out. My father suggested that i just put all of the dirty dishes in the shower for them so they are at least out of my way for now. I don't like either of these suggestions because I feel like it would make them hate me more.
If anyone has a suggestion on what i should do lmk.
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zoe
i think it doesn't matter if they hate u or not its matter of respect i agree with your mom
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