fashion anxiety :/

1709879680

i do i was was wearing these shoes i rlly like and ppl at school were laughing at them lol. it was embarrassing but now i just don't care.

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1709843451

en mi opinion hay personas que hacen eso por envidia pero weon las personas que son listas no les importara los comentarios de otras personas y por tus familiares tampoco te deberia de importar no te conozco pero seguramente eres hermosa

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1709769386

if you think about it, only few people would actually care what you wear. people have their own lives and aren't usually worried about what people are wearing in public and if they are they are just sad lmao. just try not to overthink it and wear whatever you want, i bet you'll look cool as!

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1709650408

I get this all of the time but it's only bc im transmasc. I feel like I can only dress one way for people to take me seriously.

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1709305272

i have had and still have this problem haha. if u feel good in what u wear, who cares what other people think ? u'll just be the cool person that stands out.
and if u see other people stare, who knows, they might be staring cuz they like ur outfit<3

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1709137870

I've had this problem for sooo long. The best way I've dealt with it personally is getting... Un-personal?
What I mean to say is I sort of look at myself from a different perspective than my own, usually I sort of romanticize whatever I'm doing at the time, like pretending I'm a character in a movie or a show or a book. I think, hey, I wanna be dressed in a way where girls on tumblr and twitter would probably make aesthetic threads and posts of my best outfits in the series LOL. I focus so much on acting how I'd want to act if I were actually that "character" that I don't focus too much on what anyone actually around me might think in that moment. I don't do anything crazy of course!! I just pretend to be confident and cool haha.

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1709082972

The first time I dressed trad goth in public I felt like I was gonna get judged but surprisingly, I didnt!! I dont think people like had the time of like "Look at that person, what a weirdooo" but idk that was my experience but maybe I didnt notcie

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1709044026

Trust me when i say this feeling will pass
There will sadly always be people who will judge but tbh life too short so why care?
Wear the stuff that makes you happy those people are just hater losers

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1708311821

i definitely had this problem when i started to really explore with my style!! im not really good at giving advice so bare with me a bit :'>

first, what you can try to do is slowly incorporate your style every day until eventually you're wearing the full thing!

thats the only real advice i have. other than that, i think you should just go out anyway no matter how scared you are (unless it gives u SUPER bad anxiety than take ur time ofc). i try my best to forget what I'm wearing until i get outside and already have no time to change anything :PP hope this helps!

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1708290906

I had this problem too when I was younger!! I always felt eyes on me. lol I think that other peoples opinion is really not that important. What really matters is if you feel good in thoes clothes.

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