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Everytime i ask someone to hang out i feel pathetic for some reason... like i'm too desperate or begging for their attention or something. its not humbling but yk...
and like if someone asks me to hangout i'm flattered and usually say yes so idk why when its reverse i feel like they're gonna judge me or something. especially if they dont respond its like ouch okay i guess i'll just jump out a window and never interact with another human being ever again bye
how do i not T^T
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Joeyrony
You appear to be suffering from a low self-esteem. This is a serious concern and you should seek therapy. You value yourself so little that when you try to do anything with other people you feel like you are burdening them and they would be better off without you. These feelings are not normal and are a sign of a greater issue. They can lead to some unfortunate actions if you do not take them seriously enough. Remember: there are people out there who love you, you are worthwhile, you are not a burden, your not harming anyone, you are valuable.
thank you very much TT you are worthy and loved too <3
i wouldnt say its a self esteem issue though... i think its just me not being able to handle rejection lol. other than that i am okay ^^
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Ina
I understand, somewhat. I usually have to ask because no one hangs out with me, nor they ever asked me to.
But, that feeling of feeling pathetic is just something your mind made out. It's a normal thing to ask, especially if you like those people. People actually feel pleased and recognised when they have others wanting their presence and attention, so, don't feel bad.
Your perceptions of life mold your behaviours too. Don't think too hard on how others will perceive your requests, just be honest about them. And, even if they poke fun at you or do something that upsets you, you don't have to pull up with their nonsense. I would rather have be alone that have low quality company. Trust me, crappy friends only make your life crappier.
It's okay to feel like that, just don't dwell too much. Enjoy their company and don't be afraid to ask them to hang out. It's not being pathetic, it's being appreciative. :)
yes thank you for this reply TT
its very normal!
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