on the ethics of antisocial venting and lack on nuance

there is a lot of things i want to talk about, just to get it off my chest. but the more i think of it, the more i wonder, what the etiquette of spacehey really is. on vent, it is often acceptable in certain circles to document short outbursts of unfiltered frustration, hate without nuance. people would know it was just, well, 'venting'. it wasn't (most of the time) attributed to me personally. no, i don't mean bigoted ideologies like racism, sexism, ableism. i would never excuse that for anyone. i mean raw annoyance, perceived 'stupidity' of people, complaining about 'neurotypicals' or men. suicidal and homicidal ideation, intrusive thoughs (they aren't fun).

so here i wonder, will my unnuanced and often quite antisocial outbursts be used against me? will they define me as a person here? quite often i do know what is logically 'right', i do perceive the nuances. i don't actually 'hate', think of someone badly etc. i wouldn't use it in a productive discussion. sometimes i don't need a discussion or want counter-arguments at all, because what people would tell me, i already know and accept. but my emotions often do not match that and being able to not let it boil in me has been really therapeutic so far. 

being around autistic, psychopatic, antisocial and narcissistic people gave me some sort safe space to let it all out without it affecting my everyday life. i am aware that not everyone will have the same understanding. so i am quite in a bind here. well,  i am still figuring it out. am i more of an essay guy, or a public diary fellow? do i have to redact and keep myself in check rigidly, or will a bunch of disclaimers and warnings be enough?

i do want to be creative and productive, share things with people, while also being able to express myself in less socially acceptable ways and let out my frustrations. maybe find someone who understands me or hypes me up, hence no private diary. i know that many things i wrote in the comfortable, private circle of my mutuals on vent wouldn't be as accepted on other social media, if only because of societal standards akin to those in real life. i know there are minors on here, and while i do have a DNI, it would be harder to keep them away here anyway.

i wonder what a good compromise would be. maybe starting to use a series of tags at the beginning of the post or in the title would be a good call. i would like to hear your thoughts about it, if you were curious enough to read till the end. 

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any ableist comments towards people with cluster B disorders or neurodivergenices will be disregarded.