The Judge-pocalpyse of our generation

I'm sure everyone knows about "cringe culture" or has been called a variety of names because they simply enjoy something. and I'm honestly so sick of seeing this on every platform you can download. CRINGE CULTURE IS DEAD!! have fun and enjoy life how YOU want to. you wanna wear wear a fursuit in public? do it! you wanna wear Decora and other substyles of fashion every day? do it!

I've been called things I can't say again because I like multiple genres and cultures of fashion or music like scene, emo, gyaru, etc. I get harassed and death threats because I dress differently from someone. and for what? because I like a certain color? because it's different from you? everyone on this planet is a unique person. No one is exactly the same, and that's how it's supposed to be! WE have the ability to express and BE different! so who cares what you like or wear? just enjoy yourself!

But there is a fine line between something that you can enjoy without causing problems within communities. Like if you indulge in something that actively hurts a certain community of people, for example, maybe a style of fashion that makes fun of or appropriates a culture, using outdated terms that could hurt people like me in the LGBTQIA+ community, etc. With all these possible looming issues we face, I always follow a certain rule. only one rule which is:

"if it's not hurting you or anyone else, then have fun!"

It's that simple. Because in the end, we all die someday. eventually, no one will remember who we are and what we look like. we are tiny specs of sand in the universe. so why should we conform to look and act like everyone else if it doesn't make us happy? the answer is you don't! just be sure that you don't smoosh people under your shoes while you enjoy life. we all deserve to enjoy it so be aware of it. <3