Little rant/ advice seeking

So, me and my boyfriend had a talk about our future and how it's hard for our love to survive due to the struggles that we face being so young and independent for our age. Long story short, we both pitched a plan to go to the US with his family so he can live a less stressful life and I can go to a better University

\\A little clarification as to why I want to make this move\\

I originally was planning on going to the US before graduating HS for the longest time. But instead I got rejected by a lot of my options (which I later find out I got accepted by some other ones) and since I was on a timer I had to choose with stating in PR and as much as I tried gaslighting myself that this university was nice and the environment was nice but eventually it was gonna catch up to me, I'm already about to finish the first half of my second year. Now I'm really wishing I made the move to the US. And besides, the idea of moving in with his family is so exciting because they love me and I get along with them really well. My boyfriend talked to his uncle and aunt (he calls her aunt but she's his uncle's wife) and they said they'd be more than delighted if that ever happens and they'd be happy to welcome us, just that some tweaks will have to be done in order for this to happen.

\\Resuming\\

I really believe this is a great move for the both of us, and we talked about all the risks this move could bring but we concluded that we're very deeply bonded and if we ever to break up there wouldn't be an issue between us and his family and that in reality we wouldn't break up, just go thru bumps and overcome.

The tough part for me is that idk how to tell my parents about this and how they're going to react, they really wanted me to also go to an university in the US but idk if they've already become okay with the idea of me staying in PR, and if I were to tell them idk how okay they'd be with me living in an apartment that is in the same house as his family (not too long ago I had a scandal with them because I stayed over at bf house and brought my phone which they have me tracked with). And the biggest issue I have is that they're going to think that I'm going to want to do this just for my boyfriend. My parents are heavy preachers on not ruining my future just for a man. But would it really be ruining my future if I'm going to a way better university, live rent free, not worry about food and groceries and only worry about gas and commuting? I genuinely think I would be way happier and healthier if I pulled this move. I just don't know where to start. So I really need some input or someone who can just comment on this because I don't think this is a bad idea at all.