Boyfriends

I have always seen on social media a proclivity not to talk about the things girls talk about, to not talk about boyfriends. I wonder if it is the same with boys and their girlfriends. What do you keep secret and what do you tell your friends?

Is it 'kosher' to be open about him, talking about how he treats you, how he makes you feel, you know in THOSE moments (hopefully longer that just a few minutes!), when you are together. But it seems that such things aren't spoken about 'in polite company', even though you might tell your best friend, or your sister!

Men think size matters, and while you want him long enough not to keep slipping out, it isn't so much length that matters! WHAT? Have I broken some taboo about this kind of thing? Doesn't it matter, or is it really potluck, and when it's no good you kick it to the kerb and move on to the next one? Surely, the fundamental thing wrong in relationships is honesty!

Are you honest with your boyfriend? Do you tell him what you like and what you don't like? Shouldn't you, after all, it's not all about him is it? For too long women have been made to feel they are in second place where all aspects of life are concerned, and they are DOMINATED by the men in their lives, be it father or lover, to satisfy THEIR needs and hope that they reciprocate. How many men actually know anything about a woman's body, yet we are expected to know about theirs, or put up with whatever they want to DO to us!

Men get the hump with us because we have our periods. It's a biological necessity, in order for us to be fertile, in any way, and capable of bearing children, but men get annoyed they have to wait until your period is over, or, they find another girl to satisfy them while you are indisposed. They think that it is why polygamy was invented, that their satisfaction (of purpose) is the FUNDAMENTAL concern for coupling with women!

Boyfriends, should stop thinking they have given up their play toys for a new plaything, and that it is all about them, life, about their capability of siring, when in truth it is NOT! We are supposed to compliment each other, balance an equation, fulfil a purpose, and the pleasure of doing so is a by-product of the whole thing, not the be-all-and-end-all of human existence.