visions of a guy

so for a while now, a good couple of years I've been having visions of this guy.

a month or two ago I told my friend about those visions and they told me that they were having visions of me with a guy and we both freaked out

so I asked them to describe this guy and they were on point, they said he had dark tan skin, dark curly hair, he was tall, skinny, he seemed to wear a majority of warm clothes with warm tones like red and orange, he seemed to be materialistic and had quite a bit of confidence and that there was something distinct about his face. (we don't know what about his face is distinct yet)

and so I did a rune reading, and my friend did tarot to learn about this guy and stuff about my future relating to this guy, we both got the same thing which was roughly interpreted as that id meet him in my 20s, in either art school or art gallery (I'm going to art school in a year or 2), we would be acquaintances for roughly 2 years before we start becoming friends and then later on we become a couple. 

just a couple nights ago my friend had a dream of me, which had included me, lots of orange and red, and knitting (the colours of the guy and knitting represents comfort and home and such), so we did a reading and had gotten some information about me and this guy especially regarding my low standards in guys :')

basically it telling me its gonna take longer to get with this guy if i don't up my standards soon. and i honestly get that cuz my standards are so low mainly because other gay guys i meet are looking for twinks, bears, himbos, etc, which I'm honestly none, im just a smaller, and less hairy bear tbh im a cub, which obviously guys my age arent looking for so what better way than to make my standards absolutely nothing. 

long story short, cute guy in my dreams, gotta up my standards, i want a boyfriend. the end.