I am rasist and homophobe?!?!!!?? what??

today i was at school psychologist because I`m from conservative country i need to be informated about tolerance society. and i don`t know why but psychologist think, no he`s CONVINCED that I`m rasist and homophobe.... the funniest think that i`ve told him that I`m non-binary but he don`t belive me and missprouns (((