SO......

basically i feel crazy because like ive been talking to this guy for over a year and its basically been constant flirting but it also goes beyind that and theres plenty of normal coversations mixed in with the stupidest things said ever BUTTTTTT i feel insane because i really like this guy like wayyyyyy too much but everytime i bring up the possibility of taking things further hes always like " i cant be in a relationship because im very busy with work" which yes its true hes literally always working but ITS BEEN ONLINE FLIRTING ???? like yes its online and any concerns with that is valid BUT AM I CRAZY for just wanting him to give a reason like that instead of it being a "him Thing" anyways im actually obsessed with this man and i want to work through this weird dynamic to figure something out but i have no idea what to do. like do i stay and work things out or do i just accept the L and move on