Something I've really learned in the last two years is to really not judge someone on how they present themselves, people who fit into an aesthetic visually can be so the opposite of what you'd expect, and people that don't fit could have all those interests and connect with you the most. SUPER CLICHE, but don't judge a book by it's cover. I often feel people judge me on how I look, I find it exhausting to try and mask and constantly smile for others, I'M NOT MAD. I'm literally just chilling man. Hate the whole "resting bitch face" narrative, JUST CUZ IM NOT CONSTANTLY EMOTING HAPPY FACE DOESN"T MEAN I'M NOT HAPPY.
I guess you never know