I have my hair straight, and I feel more comfortable with my gender, but I think that might be internalize racism from only seeing white masc queers. I also only see masc black people with locs or braids. I just spent so much of my life resenting my hair, I’m just trying to embrace it, but I feel too feminine.
I don’t like to label my gender, it’s confusing and I just like being me, but I also don’t like feeling bad about myself. It’s confusing, but that’s just part of growing up. One day I’ll have it figured out.