grooming experience

when i was around 13 years old i was on a online friend group with a lot of people of my age, but there was two male adults aswell. one of them started talking to one of the girls on the group on pms and eventually by the months passing they had a huge fight on the groupchat where they didnt say what happened but they wanted to cut bonds but stay on the group.

this man eventually creeped on my pms, the group usually played league of legends together including both of us so he just started being like 'ohh you play so nicee i cant play like i do without you we are just so good together' to wich i responded warmly cause we were just friends and i kept both the girl and him around as friends. we lived on different provinces of my country

it scalated very quickly and this man started to pm me all time, all hours every single day. he started saying romantic things to me like 'ohh i love u' 'wish you were here' 'cant wait to meet you' and calling me pretty and that without seeing my face. this person knew my age. im unsure about wich his age was since i always thought at that time that he was 19, but when i was with another adult friend who was 24, this man asked my friend's age and he said 'oh so im older than you!'. so i dont know if he was lying about being 24+ or lying about being 19 but he did look overage on his pics. he was very demanding if i didnt give him attention or if i didnt say that i loved him back. i never had feelings towards him but i was 13 and in a very akward situation with him, he got very mad if i didnt text him back or if i was texting to other person.

i eventually exploded and faced him cause he was being extremely demanding while i was out with my parents a summer night, i couldnt enjoy the night because i was all the time on my phone having to respond to his creepy messages. he actually believed we had a romantic relationship and that i 'accepted his confession' after he obligated me to say that i loved him back. after i sent him a message about how done i was with him, and he responded with 10+ messages wich were very long. i didnt read them and sadly i deleted the conversation cause i felt highly uncomfortable having it on my board.

another girl also came forward from that group saying that he did exactly the same to her, and to the other girl i discussed before. we kicked him out of the group. after a couple years he tried to get in contact again with us via a friend but he immediately cutted him off.

he eventually got  a girlfriend, she looked overage in her pictures with him and i only saw her once in a league of legends lobby cause a friend accidentally invited him so they both came. i still feel regret cause i should've told that girl what he did to me and the other girls and god knows if he did this with much more other girls. i also regret deleting the conversations. i cant remember if he was ever sexual, but he was still very demanding of me, making me give him my attention and to say romantic stuff back even when i was texting with short answers and expressing i was uncomfortable.