food checking tw

so my parents keep constantly food checking me...i'm a grown person i could haveKIDS if i wanted to because im THAT old and yet for some reason my parents still treat me like a kid and tell me when i can and can't order takeout. It's my money? i don't understand why they get so upset when i get takeout more than once a week because it's not like i'm spending THEIR money so...i don't get it. My mother also has this shitty habit of constantly asking me what i ate for lunch and dinner everyday and gets mad if i say something she doesn't agree with (almond mom moment) and it's just getting so tiring at this point. I feel like a kid when in reality i'm GROWN i'm in my late 20s i should be able to at least order food for myself with my own money whenever i please.