How to get over him :(

Hey hun, i'm back! So today we're gonna be discussing breakups. UGH THEY SUCK! & If you're going through one right now, i so feel ur pain..but don't worry! Ur virtual sis is here to help! The key to getting through a difficult breakup is acceptance, often times we like to play the in denial role, disregard our feelings and pretend that nothing is wrong even though we know deep down inside we are absolutely crushed by what just happened. Doing this will prolong ur healing process, so accept the fact that you are now HOT, SINGLE, & READY TO MINGLE!(or maybe just hot & single :D ) Get ready to cry ur heart out. Take off the big girl panties for a sec and feel every emotion, ur hurt and that is okay! Next, do not act off of emotion! Feel every emotion, but do not act off of it. If you want to scream, kick and break stuff girl you do what u need to do to release that ish from off of u. But NEVER & I MEAN NEVER let people see you sweat! Promise me you won't start posting nasty messages towards ur ex online, throwing subs, or posting pics/videos of ur self crying etc. Puh-lease! I promise you will regret it, BIG TIME. If you want to express ur self publicly, post the best version of yourself. Don't let anyone see that your hurt, remember what i said in my last blog? FAKE IT TILL U MAKE IT SISTER! Next, start journaling! Invest in a cute diary (mine is pink, furry, and glittery lol ) express ur feelings through the diary, write out how ur feeling, and i promise it will help u. Depending on how severe the breakup was and what caused it, u may need to speak with a therapist. If you cannot afford one (they can be expensive) lean on ur besties! Talk their ears off, bc hello?? What are friends for?! You are going to need to vent to somebody, whether ur breakup was due to cheating or if u just grew apart. Nevertheless, matter how bad ur breakup was, u will need to talk about it with someone. Okay now for the fun part! (my fave step) REBRAND! Completely rebrand urself! What i've noticed is that a lot of us lose our selves while in toxic, unhealthy relationships. Once the relationship is over, u could be left feeling lost, insecure, and feeling hopeless. Stop right there and GLOW TF UP. Ur glow up can be as simple or dramatic as u want it! Personally i live for a dramatic glow up. Like dangggg ma? This how u coming?! Whether u change ur hairstyle (cut it, dye it, add extensions, etc) update ur wardrobe (personal fave) or the extreme..buy a new body (guilty) do that ish if it makes u happy! What we are NOT doing is having rebound sex & jumping straight into new relationships to make ur ex jealous. All of this will come back to bite u! Please focus on urself for at least the next few months, so that if a new potential bae does come ur way u are healed and ready to love again! U do not want to be in a completely new relationship putting ur old baggage onto someone new, that's rule #1 to causing damage in a relationship. It is not fair to u or ur new bae! Also make sure to be patient with ur healing process, it is not a overnight thing and soon u will be over that loser! i hope this helped! *kisses*