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i recommend NOT pushing or avoiding the feelings. the more you ignore them, the worse it gets. try to find a way to get over them, whether it’s noticing all their worse traits, distancing yourself, or finding a different person to try to fall in love with. im only blogging this because im demiromantic and constantly struggle with this. i think i suck at advice but this is what helped me personally so take it or leave it. you could also take a break from them, stop talking to them or tell them you need a break. BTW!!! only do this stuff if youre 100% sure that theres no way they like you back. i fucked up a friendship once, thinking they didnt like me back so dont be like me. if they seem totally and completely uninterested or have a partner, then i think thats your sign to get over them. if they show mixed signals, be more straightforward. we dont have time for mixed signals because that shit can hurt you so bad and tear you from the inside. tell them about how you feel or show it in discreet ways; DONT confuse them or anything because two confused dumbasses in love is worse than one. this sounds aggressive but i need to get my point across yk
hope this helped :3
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ian
ily for this
AWHDHVJ TYYY. i honestly hope i helped people cuz my experience w this shit was so bad and i wouldnt wish that on anyone
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Digital★Stitches
i needed this last year omfg
damnnn i hope things got fixed w whatever happerned last year bro it can be really hard sometimes ngl like my experience was so bad but i hope youre okay now :3
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THANK U SMM T_T
IM WAY OVER HER THANK THE GODSS
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WOOHOO!!! I MEAN HEY AT LEAST YOU GOT OVER HER. thats always the important part!!
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Briar!
Had a huge crush on a friend and I wrote all abt her in a notebook to get the feelings out. It worked! I suggest that just make sure they wouldn’t look through it
yeah that also helped me at the time, i used to write about my friend a lot and got my feelings out
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I wrote abt her gs I enjoy w doing with her, my fav memories with her, boundaries, etc! It really helped me get over it and we joke about it
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ch3rriez
this is so real!!! also this def isn't good advice but whenever this happens to me I just tell the person I like them (or say I had liked them, even if its a lie and I still do) cause usually getting rejected will just knock sense back into me LMAO. its works because it gives me closure I think?
ok but that lowkey sounds smart like if you let it out it might be helpful aswell bro
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oh whoopsie
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ZenTheCat
that acctually is very helpful im in that kinda situation rn-
oh god good luck w that
im glad it helped tho :3
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ill try :)
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