stop being a people pleaser

good people just fuck each other, especially in love life, the good person cares much more about the well-being of others than their own, to the point that they don't know their well-being, the classic people pleaser, when you are a people pleaser person, you become prey to bad people, because bad people are predators and predators seek prey. and you can't be good for the other, you can't be hardworking for the other, you can't be anything for the other.

 Because ur goodness does not flatter the evil of others. You deal, for example, with the people around you with the way you care abt ur life, like "I'm doing it like this, and if you want to do it like this too, you do it" BUT DON'T EXPECT TO DEAL LIKE "oh come with me bae, do it like this babee" , you basically become his mother

you cannot be what the other cannot and does not want to be, you cannot be the ambitious one in the relationship, because it does not work, because you captivate people, it comes from being a kind person, but firm and with your limits very well imposed, and especially prioritizing