being a gold digger with boys is a favor you do

Firstly, guys are very concerned about what the girl next to him represents. there are two types of gold diggers, the one who is really there "almost" asking for help, and the one who is called a gold digger bc she wants a guy at her level or higher, she wants a guy who wants to add to her life, and there's no mistake in that , I'm not attracted to men who can't do anything for me. 

partner reflects the state of your life, if your life is in order, your partner will reflect that and will make everything much better, and if you are in shit he will reflect that and will be the person who will hold you accountable, because like, he will say, "who doesn't do yours, there's no way, I don't see you happy, I don't see you going back, I don't see you fulfilled, and you're blaming me for this??" this will be the man who will just talk shit about you to another girl, will tell you that you're boring, that you're crazy

 so look for boys who are sure of themselves, look for men who can stand on their own feet :)