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hiya! plexi again, today im gonna be talking about something a bit more happy since thats how im feeling right now! well, not happy, but more content.
platonic love. everyone has had it, even if you never realised it! well, unless some evil being cursed you into going loveless for your entire life, and for that you have my condolences. i wish you good luck on trying to lift the curse.
ive had my fair share of amazing friendships, even if they feel fleeting due to how i grow super attached for a few weeks and then fall off like a polite parasite. its very unfortunate… but regardless, im sure everyone has had at least one circle of friends in their life, ive had many!
personally, the way that i can be so comfortable around a whole group of people feels like im among the stars. that might not make sense to you, but trust me, its a good feeling. even if ive just met a group of people, i find myself getting comfortable and resonating with them quite quickly. maybe thats a me thing, but it feels wonderful.
of course, there are some friendships that just dont work out, ive had my fair share of those too, but thats okay! some were just not meant to be. life doesnt always go as planned no matter how much you try to salvage it.
im not sure how to continue this, so ill just end it here.
friends are an absolutely wonderful thing about this universe~
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evelyn 🏳️⚧️
this is so true!! to me, i really like the platonic aspect of friends because with platonic stuff, there's simply no expectations to be had. every friend can be different in their own unique way and i really love that
i have a huge variety of friends! i really need to reach out to them more, but nonetheless, i have some i speak to really often in dm's about hobbies and art forms, i have some who i have pretty affectionate and loving relationships with as well!!, and i have some who i don't even speak to often but i just Observe from a distance while they do their silly little life tasks (I do need to reach out to them more, but I appreciate their patience <3)
and to me, this might be some sense of close mindedness or just me being scared, but i feel like romantic relationships are a bit less open. Like, it depends on the person/people of course, but I feel like so much of the time both/all people are expecting SOMETHING from their partner, even if it's completely innocent, it loses something that i love about friendships. it's also why finding a good relationship is so Hard, because your expectations need to align and be reasonable
i love the variety and openness of friendships, basically. the lack of "expectation", or the lack of intense expectation. i like being able to love someone, and just show it when i want to!! and not feel forced, i guess? i love not feeling stressed, i love feeling a lack of "seriousness" with someone, i guess
this is probably more just me having issues with what i define my relationships by, or my past partners, or whatever, but it still doesn't change the appeal of platonic love 2 me at least :P
hholds your hand,,, you.. you get me..
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HEHEHE sop true
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