polygamy relationships

how do yall feel about polygamy relationships? no this is not about me , just something that caught my attention. i want to know other people opinions , be honest.


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Reece

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I'm definitely for it but its takes mature partners and you need COMMUNICATION & RESPECT. It's not easy but to me its worth it if you find the right people


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BRELIN

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Not for everybody. Takes maturity , honesty and lots of communication. Just like every monogamous ain’t the same, same goes with poly


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right πŸ’―

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lucien valentine

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definitely not for everyone. it takes a lot of maturity, and a ton of communication. any relationship takes communication, but when u open the door to jealousy on top of normal relationship stressors, theres a lot more to take into effect. it can be a beautiful thing if done properly, because u dont have to worry about ur partner not getting all their needs fulfilled and missing out on that part of themselves


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πŸ’―πŸ’―πŸ’― so right it takes alot of maturity and more

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CalmStorm

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Are you confusing polygamy and polyamory because them are two different things.

Either one, of course, will not work for every person, that is something that needs to be discussed and communicated about from the very beginning.

For myself, personally, neither is for me. My ex-husband and i have tried a lot of things: swinging, open, dating separate, dating together, polyamory, one night stands, etc. While he still feels he is able to continue as a polyamorous person, that just is not for me.
While I am able to love more than one person at a time, my issue with that is giving each individual equal time. When I fall for someone, I fall hard. I tend to give my all to just one person without even trying. Therefore, polyamory does not work for me.

To each their own, with whatever that may be :)


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yeah same difference ig and yeah

by liljuicyy_t; ; Report

its not for everybody you both have to want it make it work yk have to come to a understanding

by liljuicyy_t; ; Report

Well polygamy deals more with marriage, while polyamory deals with dating. Thats really the only difference. There are also two other kinds that deal with marriage:

"In short, polyamory is the act of having intimate relationships with more than one person at the same time. A polyamorous person might have or might be open to having multiple romantic partners.

Polygamy, on the other hand, involves being married to multiple partners.

Some polyamorous people are married and have partners outside of their marriage. However, polygamy exclusively describes relationships where people are married.

Polyandry and polygyny are both forms of polygamy (in other words, they involve marriage too)."

-https://www.healthline.com/health/relationships/polyamory-vs-polygamy#short-answer

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I fully agree, both individuals have to make sure to do their research and see if they fully understand what it is all about and the work that goes into it.
Not to mention the boundaries, compromises, communication and trust that is highly needed for it to work.

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Girl yeah i know you dont have to come on here giving a lecture and putting the websites on here .. thanks but no thanks maam

by liljuicyy_t; ; Report

I am just trying to help and make sure people know the difference and do not get things mixed up and sending out false information, no reason to be rude.

by CalmStorm; ; Report

yeah i realized i put the wrong word , i respect and appreciate it i apologize

by liljuicyy_t; ; Report

Thats alright, I appreciate the apology :) Have a great night! :)

by CalmStorm; ; Report

i truly apologize i thought you was trying to like be like rude or something and goodnight you too

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Demontre Smith

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I just made a post about this... From a male perspective , I believe that a polyamorous relationship is ideal. Not for the sexual piece, but also the emotional , reassuring side as well for both male and females. If a guy isnt SATISFIED with having 2 loyal life companies to build an empire with.. It is greedy!! I understand females may enjoy experimenting with each other and some are fond of it. Its the best of all worlds really... There are less MEN in this world than women. Timing hurts most monogamous relationships. It honestly makes sense, respectfully


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mhmm food for thought you have a point πŸ’― you have to come to an agreement and be loyal happy and more , if not it wont work .. like you said some just be wanting to do it just bc then it blows up in their face

by liljuicyy_t; ; Report

All of your options are right there.. I mean , you seen that movie , Savages?!? Best example of what it should be like no matter gender role

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SoBeautiful

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I’m open to it but we must have trust and communication otherwise it just won’t work for me.


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exactly

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Jackie D.

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As long as all parties are consenting adults, it shouldn't matter what others think. But that's just my personal opinion.


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right and they come to an agreement

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Ev ✨

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I feel like we all have to co exist and consider what doesn’t work for us might work for others. But in my personal view I wouldn’t be able to part take in poly relationships I feel like I want to grow old with someone I want to love just one person however I have clients that do part take and I feel like each couple has their rules of what they can and can not do as long as those rules are respected I don’t see a problem with it


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Love your answer , yes youre right and i feel and respect what you saying , like to each it own people like what they like

by liljuicyy_t; ; Report

Would you ever consider it?

by Ev ✨; ; Report

no

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Travis Flemmings

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I’m a one woman man

Idk if I can see myself with two woman at the same time in a relationship.


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I can respect that

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Briana Roy

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Idk sharing is caring but not for me though . Y’all be safe lol


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respectfully right πŸ’―

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A-Block

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I dont know thats nothing for me lol Im old fashioned and Im not sharing anything because the woman could be like this too and want more than one guy so nawwww im not down with that


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youre right its nothing wrong w being selfish ,its ok not to share when it comes down to certain things

by liljuicyy_t; ; Report

exactly !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!πŸ’―

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Siena 🏳️‍πŸŒˆπŸ’™

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It’s always something I wanted to try with the right females though


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oh okay , yes gotta pick the right person hopefully you do and the vibe is there.

by liljuicyy_t; ; Report

Facts. I always said I don’t like sharing my lady and I’m a one woman person but I just want try it

by Siena 🏳️‍πŸŒˆπŸ’™; ; Report

ofc thats understandable , but people grow and start experiencing its good to step out of your comfortable zone here and there .. you never know that might actually be for you cant knock it til you try it .

by liljuicyy_t; ; Report

Facts. You right

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