sharing toughts🙃

hey everyone , just sharing today toughts🙃 

i always tought , how can someone put the responbality of a divorce , of custody and all that stuff in the shoulders of a child. Children should not have to care about that . At 11 you should not be asked if you want your mom to stop being your mom in the legal way . Or if you need your parent more then 4 times a year . What is a children supposed to say ? Its not fair . Its making childrens grow up in not the good way . 

Also , Mentally ill , depressed and mentally unstable parents should not have custody unless they are on their meds or better . Because a childrens is not supposed to carry the weight of a household because their parents can’t do it . At 12 you can’t clean , do laundry , cook , ect and then grow up stable . being a mom at 12 is not a good way to be in a good relationship with life growing up .

Anyways , bye everyone 😘