AITA for not wanting to go to the same college as my friend

First sorry for that dramatic title;p anways I just passed my 10th and where I’m from 11 & 12 are consider college. So me and my friend had decided to go to the same college. And I had to yk convince my parents to that college and they finally agreed. (Not really my mom still wants me to go to another college) but now my friend (whom I’m supposed to go to the same college) is saying she won’t and she’ll go to another one. And she told me to come with her. And well I said no. Cause it is either this college for me or the one my mom chooses. But then my friend got mad saying I’m not her friend and I never care about her. Well I got mad and told her to stop being dramatic and we’re just going to different college and we’ll still be able to be friend. Now she just said bye and hasn’t replied 😿. Now that I’m writing it I kinda see that maybe I’m the problem too 😨