Literally spamming atp :[

7/5/23

I'm so indecisive on what I want my layout to look like, there's so many cute options on here omggg. I was staying over at my cousins house for the weekend up until the 4th of July (We celebrated my grandmas bday) AND LET ME TELL YOU I was so exhausted and ready to come home after that weekend (ﾉ´ヮ`)ﾉ*: ･ﾟ DONT GET ME WRONG I had so much fun with her and honestly probably the best part about this month as of rn BUT JEEZ. They have a kid in the house and I absolutely adore her but they do not know how to raise kids at all smh. And trust me I'm only 16 but I take notes on the way my mom raised us and my dad and many other people I'm close to, and unless your child is diagnosed with mental challenges (bc my little sister has a mental disability and it was tough raising her so I understand) then the way that child acts is almost entirely the parents fault. (°▽°) She constantly cries and cries and cries over every single thing, again I understand that when kids are at an age, things are more dramatic to them and they don't know how to handle it. But this is so much more different. The reason why she cries so much is because the family encourages her behavior by finding it "cute" or "funny" and just laugh at her behavior instead of correcting it and guiding her in a way where she'll understand that some things just don't need to be handled that way. And it's not only me that knows this, literally the rest of my family esp our grandma has told my aunt (the kid's grandma) that they need to start disciplining her better. And they don't even need to hit her or yell at her, there's many different alternatives to discipline, but laughing and encouraging bad behavior? Then they wonder why we think their daughter is insufferable to the rest of us. Also I know this isn't her fault at all, she's barely 4 and I won't ever blame kids for the way they are, but I can sure as hell talk crap about her parents all I want lol. Not too much though cuz I love my cousins dearly, they just really need to get a grip on reality and start handling things the right way. 

P.S. the child's mom literally use to tell me to have kids and that kids are great when her daughter was around 6 months old, and now she doesn't even pay attention to her kid and rolls her eyes at her. That family has so many problems I can't. Hopefully they don't know who I am and won't come across my page lol (─‿‿─)