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i feel like this is a common problem in many friendships.
like, maybe you're talking w/ a friend and then you realise that you're always the one to reach out first...
it's not like this friend is not enjoying being with you, but is never the one to try and make plans iykwim... and i don't really know how to handle the situation because it's not like we don't like each other (on the contrary, we are always happy to be around each other), but i feel like i'm pushing and i'm being needy for no reason...
i feel like i'm just too much sometimes and i don't really know how to handle it.
on one end i really like starting convos and making plans, but on the other i feel like i'm putting *almost* too much effort in what i'm doing...
UISREYBGRVRCYNIOTTGJ idk... maybe i'm just overthinking it... :)
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Mar
also ur def not being needy i think most people like the fact others make an effort to care or be interested even if most dont like to admit they like having caring people around
Mar
maybe u just need reassurance tbh i think like this too but it's never that deep in the end, sometimes we dont know what is going on in their head so they are distracted from reaching out first from being so stuck in their head.. ive had this friend for years and ik she cares about me but i have to keep in mind they cant always be talking and that cancelling plans is normal and not a personal thing
thank u <333
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