abt relationships u cant let go

hey, i wanna talk about this topic bc idk, i just want to and i hope this help someone figure out what theyre feeling or what they should do abt it :D

not my native language so it must have some grammar mistakes

most of people has already had a relationship w someone that they cant simply let them go. it can be a love relationship or a friend relationship.

u know when you know that person isnt so good or isnt good at all for u? like, u know this but u kinda ignore or simply dont wanna accept the fact. that person just made a lot of bad things to you and brought mostly negative feelings to you, but you still `like` them. 

The fact is, most of times, u dont really like this person. actually, youre attached to them, and its really different from liking or loving someone.

youre used to have this person by ur side, to talk to them and their presence in general in your life. u dont care if this person is doing the fcking most around u, like, arguing with u bc of simple or trivial things, letting u down as hell, making u doubt your potential, literally not helping in any parts of ur life. you can hate this person with all of your soul, but u cant let them go. and you perceive it bc even when u know u hate them u cant stop sending messages to them, complaining about how stressed u are bc of them, how sad this person can let u, or even complaining that this person doesnt talk to u at all.

its not healthy giving all of u for sum people that dont even think about saying a simple hello to u when u meet when taking a walk.

its not healthy giving all of u for people that take that `all of you` and throw at the trash

its not healthy giving all of u for people that only want u when no one wants them

its not healthy giving all of u for people that only treat u decently in private.

its not healthy giving all of u for people that know that youre the one that keep the conversation going

its not healthy giving all of u for people that want u to be someone else

its not healthy giving all of u for people that you have to disrespect your bondaries just to please them.

u need to let this kind of people go, u need to respect yourself.

the end of a cycle must be tough most of times, but it is always a open door for restarts. We are in constant transformation, constanly changing, and ending cycles and starting a new one is essential for our self improvement. for those who believe it, spiritual improvement also. 

in the beginning, u will regret it, but in the future, u will be so grateful.

i know its hard drifting apart from people you used to be so close, but if this person is not taking u forward and doing the absolutely opposite, then its time to let go.

we`re temporary, and so are people. u dont have to dedicate all of your life to people that dont deserve it.  you have to dedicate your life to u, youre the only one that will stay with u at the end.

prioritizing yourself isnt being selfish, its the bare minimum.

youre allowed to cry, to suffer about it, u cant get over something u dont feel. the most important part is: you will be fine. 

u think everything is eternal, when its not. the suffering fits this situation too.

just be kind to yourself, u deserve only the good. dont let people that shouldnt be in your life ruins it.

pls be fine, and always remember that there are people who truly cares about you, you must be one of those.

sorry if i didnt express myself right, its really hard to write a full foreign language blog, specially if its expressing something.

''love who loves you back''