Creepos at my school

People from my school are genuinely so weird. So obviously like I said in my last blog some of them are straight up rude. But then there are the people that are straight up weird. Also just a warning, this kind of gets into puberty stuff which is like gross ew I know but just be wary.

There’s this one guy that just has no sense of personal space whatsoever. Also, every girl that he gets to talk to him he will fall in love with. He’s cycled through every single girl in my friend group, and had these little mini obsessions. He always makes it so obvious too. He’ll always say weird things, and get super close and make all this weird small talk. It is weird, but it’s also a bit sad. He only has a small circle of friends and this mini obsession thing obviously has some reason behind it. So we all stay nice to him, we just need to be careful and know how to set boundaries. 

I feel bad though, because he’s currently obsessed with one of my friends, and she’s just the sweetest girl. The problem is that she doesn’t know how to say no, and I used to be like that with him but I learned pretty quick what situation that got you in. But she’s just too scared he’ll be upset, or get sad, and she’s just so stressed out about hurting his feelings when he’s very obviously making her uncomfortable with the things he’s saying. But she REALLY does not want to be firm with him so there’s not much we can all do other than step in when it gets really bad. Otherwise when she step in, she gets all panicky and he gets all offended. It’s just a bad situation all around, but thankfully summers coming soon and hopefully that guy doesn’t track her number down or anything. 

There’s also another guy, and he’s worse than the first. He gets handsy, and he makes so many weird comments right to girls faces. He had made multiple comments about me and my friends chests, which is super weird and rude. He always makes weird comments about just rude humor, like dicks and stuff and he thinks it’s funny even though it makes everyone around him uncomfortable. He also makes self deprecating jokes in the hopes girls will be like “No!” And be nice to him. It’s so weird. There’s this one time he tried to high five me, but I obviously knew it was a trap so I tried to go around him and he GRABBED ME by the waist and pushed me against a wall and we kind of just sat there for a few seconds in a weird half hug. I know right now you’re like “Well why didn’t you just MOVE out of his grip you dummy” AND DUH, I SHOULD’VE DONE THAT. But I dunno in that moment I just like froze which is stupid but it’s what happened. I always thought I’d be cool like “Ew get off me” and stand up for myself in situations like those but it’s way different when it actually happens. It’s like you need time to process what’s happening. AND OBVIOUSLY ITS NOT LIKE ITS SOMETHING THATS LIKE SUPER BAD SO I FEEL LIKE IM BEING DRAMATIC but I dunno, it was scary.

And there’s ANOTHER guy at my school that makes weird jokes all the time. It’s so sad, cause I’m friends with him and he’s not weird weird. Well, he kind of is. He’s made a couple weird comments about me. He once said he thought about me changing, and sometimes makes jokes about my chest, but he very obviously does not have the same intentions behind his jokes as the other guys at school do. That’s the reason we can stay friends. Its all lighthearted and funny. The only thing is, he used to not be like that at all. He used to always be the good one in the group. Then suddenly we’re in middle school and BOOM. Ugh, hormones make so many people weird. He always makes weird jokes about yknow, the d word. Honestly, what is boys obsessions with that? Girls all have chests and we’re not constantly talking about them like boys are. (Ew that was so weird to say but I’m not gonna lie it’s true so like)

Another thing about that d word that I’d feel gross for repeating again, the boys on my bus are obsessed with it to. They’re older, but they’re no better than the middle school boys. They talk all the time about what is considered “better” or whatever and talk about boners all the time and the weird experiences they’ve had. Which, I really wouldn’t care about if they didn’t talk about it SUPER LOUDLY in a SMALL BUS. Plus, they’re talking about it with girls. Like, gross? And she seemed super uncomfortable when he started getting into it too. She kept saying “Can you stop talking? This conversation is over, I really don’t need to hear about all that.” And he kept trying to tell her. He eventually gave up but i just found it disgusting. Anyways, talking about this stuff is weird and I think that’s enough of that. 

If I think of anyone else weird I should mention here I will.