based filipino culture

I don’t get it why people get offended when their friends or relatives remark that “ang taba mo na” or “ampayat mo na”.

Unless you’re not Filipino, it’s not normal if you get offended by such remarks. It’s just figurative speech to tell you they haven’t seen you in a long time and you changed much.

I find it sweet when my aunts notice that I gain weight or loose. It means they noticed and they cared.

There’s no such thing as “toxic Filipino culture”; it’s just you being so westernized you are no longer accustomed to Filipino culture.

Lubog-lubog din sa kung pano mag-isip ang masang Pilipino para di ka puro call out ng “toxic Filipino culture”.