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Please Read if You're Adding or Have Already Added Me




Notice: Before sending friend requests, please read this blog to understand my views and my discretion over removing people from my friends list. If there's someone I added that I shouldn't have, please instant message me and I'll check as soon as possible.

My Views and Expectations

I won't cutthroat my views with political positions or labels, nor do I intend to indulge with people's differing perspectives about such positions. However, I state that those actively spewing hatred or violence get no sympathies from me. This is something I must discuss to anyone reading this blog post. Despite being a notable user on other sites, I digress to readers that I will not tolerate any despicable actions towards my peers, no matter the severity.

If you attempt to hijack anyone's autonomy, have generalizations and prejudicial intentions of others, or simply bigoted about the world around you, then don't bother adding me. There are often good people accompanied by hateful folk that share similar identities.

Generalizing others can cause many problems for you and for others. If you cannot figure out my position about my reasoning for only accepting good people then please, by all means ignore me and block me.

I accept many people in my social circles as long as they share goodness and love. If they aren't harming others and seeking a happier life due to the state of the world today, why would I reject it? I welcome many people that are communicating with me and helping me out and reciprocating the same.

How I Add People

Most of the time, I find a page that has a positive identity and personality. Not by happiness or exciting profiles or personas they create, but respect for the person's own style and presentation. Oftentimes there's similar interests that end up wanting me to add them and see what's going on in their lives. Then there's people that look like they have something to say.

Other times I'm getting friend requests that are neutral or it's profiles that are new to the site. I try to have a better judgement on who I add to my friends list, but we as humans make mistakes. Overtime, people change, and that change can be better or worse than the previous version of ourselves. 

Everyone has an autonomous response to these circumstances including you. Nonetheless, I will decide whether or not I keep you listed in my friends list if I find that you're a hostile individual. You must understand I get numerous traffic around my page alone, with many interactions on social media. Some bad actors can slip by and attempt to ruin the experience of SpaceHey for my friends and I. If there are people breaking the SpaceHey Terms of Service, please report them! Your efforts will not be in vain as they benefit the entire site's ecosystem.

Blocking Users

I block users from my friends list that present harmful content onto the following:
  • Their profile / bulletin / blog space
  • My profile / other profiles (in comments)
  • My bulletins / friend bulletins (comments)
  • My blogs / friend blogs (comments)
  • Including violation of SpaceHey Terms in the aforementioned listings
I won't be able to see everything in SpaceHey, but the general space where I engage with new friends on SpaceHey are good enough for me to have no tolerance for such behavior. I'll immediately block you and whoever is affiliated with your type of behavior. 

The severity will also determine a user report and notification of my friends to avoid certain individuals that produce hateful and bigoted responses near my vicinity. To conclude, there's bound to be those that slip past my peripheral browsing of the site. So I ask again, please let me know if someone that happens to interact with me has done harmful content.


Thank you for reading this blog!

If you need clarification on anything you can comment below and I can help sort it out.

This was updated on March 22, 2022 at 16:54 PM UTC+0


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DE Navarro

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Thanks for being specific.


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Melrose

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Legit, I'm pretty much on this same boat. Shipping it dude. Have a good one.


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