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I'm asking this because idk why I'm self-centered its like im aware of my doings yet i can't stop myself and i feel so insecure because people around me are better than me like they're smarter talented and pretty but at the same time i feel thankful for what I have.
also, I feel so pressured because young people at my age already have many admirers and they even have rs stuff which makes me think if I'm really this unattractive (I just really want many boys to like me idk why i define my beauty to boys)
i thought I'm already fine yet i just notice my self-esteem is still low and i thought what i was doing back then is right but i was actually acting superior to people especially to my one friend and i just realize why people from my school see me as selfish and short tempered (i just fully realize this last month)
im so sorry for the vent
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Seb
There's no need to apologize for venting, self esteem issues are very common with teenagers or young people in general, and while having a lot of admirers is nice (trust me I love it too) it can get extremely bad... people will like you, yes, but only for your looks, not for who you are as a person.. and it's sad, but it's the truth. My advice is ignore that type of attention, it's not good and people will only try and use you for your looks and not respect you.. I I understand that it can be hard, but you're also pretty and smart and talented in your very own way :)
tysm, i dont like hearing compliments like you're so cute/pretty stuff like that because it feels like a lie and its like boosting my ego(its like a forced compliment just to make me happy idk but it just feel so fake) thx im rlly hoping everything about how i see myself will change
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Yeah thats understandable, I apologize for that. And don't worry, with time you will certainly get better and i can't wait to see your recovery :)
by Seb; ; Report
tysm and u too
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