Why can't I listen to what I want in peace?

I swear people treat it like a crime to listen to thigs they don't. I listen to bright things I'm white, if I listen to darker things I'm emo, if I listen to what others listen to I'm a follower. When will it end! To be fair idc how people feel abt what I listen to but god it can be annoying at times. It's one thing if it's a joke between friends. Me and my friends make fun of each other all the time. It becomes an issue when complete randos feel they need to take the time out of their day to comment on what's going into my ears. Like,,, how bored are you?