how is not wanting to have s3x with a trans person transphobic? like, it can be if you don't want to BECAUSE they're trans, even tho they had the surgeries so their private parts look the same as if they were cis.
but like you're not gonna sleep in the same bed with everyone who has the genitals of your preference, right?
imagine being called tranphobic bc you don't wanna have s3x with someone, even tho you're ace for example
i just think it's kinda dumb