guys i found a new pet (TW SPIDERS)

I JUST FOUND A WOLF SPIDER ON THE CEILING OF THE KITCHEN WHEN I WAS GOING DOWNSTAIRS TO GET ANOTHER COFFEE AND I CAUGHT IT AND IT WAS ALIVE SO I PUT IT IN A BIG ASS JAR AND NOW ITS NAME IS FANGS HES REALLY CUTE (IM NOT SURE WHAT GENDER IT IS) IF YOU CAN TELL THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN FEMALE AND MALE WOLF SPIDERS PLEASE TELL ME SO I CAN SEE FANGS GENDER!! :D

(EDIT UPDATE ) MY FRIEND TOLD ME MORE ABOUT SPIDERS AND HOW YOU CAN HAVE THEM AS PETS,I GOT HIM A HABITABLE CAGE AND HE IS VERY HAPPY\

(EDIT UPDATE) I PUT BARK , ROCKS, AND DIRT IN HIS CAGE AND MISTED IT A BIT! HES HAPPY!!