cut off a whole friend group (read if you like drama)

holy shit i’m so exhausted. i can’t give you all of the context that is needed to really understand this, but this is what basically happened. 

i recently (about a month ago) broke up with my abusive partner (good riddance) that all of my friends had also been friends with. they had my back on everything and were on my side. MORE recently though, i’ve been going through a lot, and was getting fed up with a lot of the drama, so i was already starting to rethink my relationship with them. then, my friend sent me a screenshot of them in a GC (that they had been kicked from too) of two of my friends just talking to him (my ex), as if they were still good friends???

that hurt a lot. they knew how much he hurt me and it felt like that it didn’t even matter. so in a gc with all of them, i said that them talking to him really hurts, and that i wouldn’t feel comfortable consoling in someone who’s still friends with my abusive ex.

they weren’t a big fan of that

they went OFF at me and said it was unfair for me to tell them to stop talking to him (i said they could still talk to him, but i would just stop talking to them) while i still talked to him.

i originally had him blocked for a month, but the night before i was feeling really *really* bad, and unblocked him and talked to him because i knew that he still loved me and that he would actually listen to me and care about what i said. it was literally a moment of weakness. i didn’t plan on continuing the relationship.

but they kept say that i was being so hypocritical and kept attacking me and bringing all this shit up and throwing it at me, and then got nit-picky with my wording and used that against me too (there were three people talking to me all at once, so it was a bit hard to type in a timely manner)

some other stuff happened, but that’s really private.

the conversation was over. 

then, today, i WAKE UP TO A POST OF EVERYONE HANGING OUT WITH HIM LIKE NOTHING HAPPENED, and that really pushed me over the edge and i blocked them all <3

i really don’t care if what i did was right or not, because i am literally in high school, and none of this will matter in a year or two. also they’re all seniors and i’m a junior, so they’re leaving in a month anyways🤷

but yeah, that’s all i can really get out right now- i’m happy to be out of that friend group honestly, because now i don’t have to deal with future drama :D

they can be angry with me while i take care of myself. i don’t care anymore.