PLEASE READ!! (before friend requesting or messaging me)

For starters, check out my pronouns page: https://en.pronouns.page/@Persie707

I'm putting this up to lay down some dni's, boundaries, and warnings regarding interacting with me.

Do not interact if:

You don't support neo/xenopronouns (you don't have to use mine but I do use them)

You are younger than 17 or older than 23 (I have personal reasons for my discomfort with age gaps) ((some exceptions may be made idk))

You perpetuate cringe culture (hate on people in any way for having harmless interests/identities like furries, therians, otherkin, dsmp or any other similar fandoms)

You fakeclaim people's disorders and/or don't support thoroughly researched self diagnosis

You dislike tone tags (I don't need you to use tone tags but I use them occasionally)

You have a habit of trauma dumping (venting without permission)

You are pro sh/ed (I have no issue with those in recovery)

You don't respect/associate with theistic or atheistic Satanists (I'm an atheistic Satanist) or any other "unconventional" religious practice

When interacting please don't:

Discuss possibly triggering topics without a warning. Honestly, I rarely get triggered, it's mostly just rude to surprise someone with dark topics and makes me feel like you're inconsiderate. If we're discussing media like games or shows I probably won't care but if you need to talk about something personal ask first.

Be upset if I'm not emotionally capable of hearing you vent. If you ask and I tell you I'm not in a place to let you vent to me right now that's that. I'm not being rude I just struggle with depression and I can't always take other people's sadness.

Some things to keep in mind if you want to talk to me:

I am very poor at reading between the lines (autism). I take what you say at face value and my words mean exactly what I say they mean. There's no hidden intention. Please don't assign tones or implications to my words, I promise you I'm not implying anything. If I wanted to imply something I would just say it. Please don't be upset if you imply something and it takes me a while to get or I need it explicitly stated. 

For several reasons, there may be times when I take a while to respond or am offline for longer than usual. I might need time to recharge my social battery, I might be in a depressive episode, or I might have just forgotten because I'm very forgetful. Please be patient with me and know that it's solely me and not you.

If you read all of this and you want to message me start the conversation by letting me know you saw all this so I know we're good. Also start telling me about something you really care about, especially if it's an interest we have in common! :)