comfort vs solutions

im learning about myself that despite offering solutions instead of comfort when people talk about their problems with me, i hate when people give me solutions when i talk about my problems. 

i think the reason is it makes me feel like the person thinks im an idiot. like duh i have tried the first thing that popped into your head because it was also the first thing that popped into my head, you arent a special little genius. it feels like my PDA whispering to me and telling me to be an ass to people 

i feel like a hypocrite saying it but i judt dont want people to try to solve my problems if i dont ask them for their ideas