First let me start off by saying that this is not how God intended for sex to be. Not trying to preach im just saying that sex is supposed to be something that invokes emotions because you're giving a piece of yourself to that other person. Think back to the very first time that you ever had a sexual encounter with someone and be honest with yourself. How did it make you feel afterwards when you really had time to think about it. Were you glowing and feeling on top of the world?, or when you found yourself in a quiet place did you feel shame as a cheap and or dirty object? If not ok I'm just saying that wouldn't it be sooo much better if we could be intimate with one partner and not feel shame, guilt, objectivity, or dissatisfaction of the other person's performance because we have taken the time to truly understand our partner's likes and dislikes knowing that you only desire your partner and your partner only truly desires you. This is how God intended sex, love, and marriage to be in the first place. When we stick to these life guiding principles we keep ourselves protected from emotional hurt, unwanted pregnancies, and stds. I SAY ALL OF THIS IN LOVE. I PRAY THIS HELPS BUT TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION NO BECAUSE WE STILL CARRY A BIT OF THAT PERSON WITH US FOREVER.
Of course! My ex beg me to be friends with benefits thinking she will win me back that way and i obliged but to me it was just sex and i thwarted her evil plans
You definitely can. You need to set rules and boundaries with the other person to ensure neither of you catch feelings. A good rule to implement is the "not hanging out outside of the action" rule. I feel like if you become close and all buddy-buddy, you can start to catch feelings. Keep it simple. Get in, do the deed, get out.
It’s possible, but I feel like you have to define the “emotion” at the time. Example, you sleep with someone, cool, you don’t gotta be in love, but something about them attracted you to get in bed with them. That’s some emotions you feel for them & sometimes people even go back to that person they so call “don’t have feelings for”
100% you just have to know how to separate emotions from physical attraction/interaction. It’s honestly very liberating when you’re able to control who you fall for Because allowing sex to control your emotional pull to someone can be very damaging.
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Veronica
First let me start off by saying that this is not how God intended for sex to be. Not trying to preach im just saying that sex is supposed to be something that invokes emotions because you're giving a piece of yourself to that other person. Think back to the very first time that you ever had a sexual encounter with someone and be honest with yourself. How did it make you feel afterwards when you really had time to think about it. Were you glowing and feeling on top of the world?, or when you found yourself in a quiet place did you feel shame as a cheap and or dirty object? If not ok I'm just saying that wouldn't it be sooo much better if we could be intimate with one partner and not feel shame, guilt, objectivity, or dissatisfaction of the other person's performance because we have taken the time to truly understand our partner's likes and dislikes knowing that you only desire your partner and your partner only truly desires you. This is how God intended sex, love, and marriage to be in the first place. When we stick to these life guiding principles we keep ourselves protected from emotional hurt, unwanted pregnancies, and stds. I SAY ALL OF THIS IN LOVE. I PRAY THIS HELPS BUT TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION NO BECAUSE WE STILL CARRY A BIT OF THAT PERSON WITH US FOREVER.
Katie ♡
I've never experienced that myself, but I sure did try not to have emotions involved once lol.
Ramiro
Of course! My ex beg me to be friends with benefits thinking she will win me back that way and i obliged but to me it was just sex and i thwarted her evil plans
Elise
It depends on the person but I couldn’t do it.
Neon Phantom
No, I don't get much pleasure out of it without emotions
Felecia
Yes you can have a fuck buddy without feelings.
Geraldyn Torres
Yes. At some point in your life you will most likely have sex w no feelings involved w/o even knowing
Geraldyn Torres
Yes. At some point in your life you will most likely have sex w no feelings involved w/o even knowing
Kai
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I think to an extent.. only for so long you can.
BRELIN
Yes I can but the sex no matter how good it is always turn out meaningless due to the lack of emotion/intimacy
lucien valentine
i have caught feellings for one guy in the past year... tbh tho he woke up and made breakfast and didnt think id fall?
Pretty_aarii
As a women I feel like you can’t ! Also depends on the person & the bond
Mate
its definitely possible but i think it depends on the person
Serena <3
You definitely can. You need to set rules and boundaries with the other person to ensure neither of you catch feelings. A good rule to implement is the "not hanging out outside of the action" rule. I feel like if you become close and all buddy-buddy, you can start to catch feelings. Keep it simple. Get in, do the deed, get out.
SlientCry73
Depending how often the both of you are having sex first off. I having sex it on the regular then feelings will get involved
You are right though. But at times emotion sets in when you least expect
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Tina
It’s possible, but I feel like you have to define the “emotion” at the time. Example, you sleep with someone, cool, you don’t gotta be in love, but something about them attracted you to get in bed with them. That’s some emotions you feel for them & sometimes people even go back to that person they so call “don’t have feelings for”
Bri_breezy
100% you just have to know how to separate emotions from physical attraction/interaction. It’s honestly very liberating when you’re able to control who you fall for
Because allowing sex to control your emotional pull to someone can be very damaging.
Diabla Venenosa
for sure possible but it's also pretty damaging to an certain pint- depending on the person of course.
UnaEstrella
soul ties are a thing
Danyelle Marie
Some can and some can't. Even if you come to an understanding, some people just get attached and some don't.