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how do i get my 22 year old sister to realize that yelling at her son or raising her voice at him for being a toddler will have a bad effect on him in the future?? she recently yelled at him for running around in their yard because she wanted to go to walmart, and i felt bad for the kid because number one, he clearly doesn't like his carseat, and number two, he was just being a toddler. i was(and still am) the kid who got yelled at for just being a kid and it forced me to grow up at a young age because i thought i wasn't allowed to act my age or else i would get judged. he's only two years old, and i can almost 100% guarantee that when he's old enough to realize he's getting yelled at and punished for acting his age, he's going to go down the path i did. i don't want my nephew to be traumatized for the rest of his fucking life.
signing off, vinnie.
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Jada
Like, hey girl! So, like, I totally get that you're worried about your nephew, right? It's not cool when kids get yelled at for just being kids, ya know? And you're totally right, yelling at a toddler can have a bad effect on their development in the long run, like, no joke. So, like, maybe you can talk to your sis in a chill way, letting her know you're concerned and that there are other ways to discipline a little one without yelling. You can share your own story and offer to help with positive parenting tips, ya know? But, like, remember to be patient and non-confrontational, babe, 'cos parenting is a sensitive topic. Keep it loving and understanding, and respect her choices too. You got this, babe!
thank you so so much !!! i will totally take your advice :DD
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