what do i want ?

hey world lets talk about what we want in a relationship.

boom let me start. i want a bond that will never break, but is that realistic ? my parents have been married for 26 years like thats a long as time low key. everything wasnt preaches and cream they have been through alot but they managed to stick together and love each other. thats because even when they were mad at each the still liked each other. you have think like damn do i even like to person to stay with or even stay married to them. i love family but i promise you i dont like them. i also think in this generation we dont like to put in the work. keep and maintaining a partnership is hard work. i dont want to speak for everyone but i have seen relationship that could have worked if they were both willing to work at it. and that doesnt mean putting up with their bullshit but both of them finding a solution that could make the situation better. then i think to "why waste your time" because you can do all the work and still doesnt work out. im also a person that doesnt like when people give up on me. i have hard time being completely open with someone and im still waiting for that one person to come in my life where i feel safe enough to open up in that way. i dont want to end up like my parents. i say that because i asked my mom were in love with my dad when you married him and she said no. she said it took a few years to truly fall in love with. i want to already be in love because when i think of being in love im safe with this person. im 24 now and i know thats young but everyone wants to feel safe and i just want to feel with my person before we deicide to make a decision that will change our lives completely. what do you think ? what do you want in a relationship? what makes you feel safe?