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My boyfriend left the house, he's going to the dentist.
He gets frustrated when I accidentally make him repeat himself. My memory is not good. I try.
Apparently he already told me his dentists appointment is today. I only knew he was calling, so when I asked where he was going he acted like I was stupid for not knowing.
I reacted, saying I ouldn't have known, then he told me he'd already informed me of it earlier today.
It's embarrassing, and what's more, it annoys him.
I'm glad he's gone. I get some time to myself.
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junip ⋆｡°✩
not to overstep, just offering some advice, you should really talk to him about that. you cant control how bad your memory is, its really unfair for him to get so annoyed over something you cant help and really isnt that big of a deal. especially if hes your boyfriend, he should be much more understanding and patient, if he really cares for you. i speak from experience, my ex had a horrible memory and would even forget stuff really important to me, but i know they cant help it, so id just simply tell them again, its very easy to do. i hope he starts treating you better in that area, you dont deserve being treated like youre dumb for simply having bad memory.
tysm. I'll bring it up before it happens again and hopefully we can talk it out.
I think it's hard for him because his mom and grandma both have memory problems too, so he probably feels like he's repeating himself *a lot* sometimes.
And I understand that from his perspective it feels like I'm not listening -- no one likes to be ignored.
Thank you again for your concern, care, n advice!
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Galpacho
alone time is precious.