⚠ DNI! ⚠

it's good to set some ground rules, so here are my DNI bullet points:

• basic DNI criteria:

     ○ don't be sexist/homophobic/transphobic/hateful in general towards queer people.

     ○ don't be racist/xenophobic.

     ○ no ableism, over any type of disability (physical, mental, emotional) or hatred towards neurodivergent people.

     ○ no "MAPs"/p*dos.

     ○ don't be a meanie! we're allowed to disagree with each other, and i'm happy to agree to disagree with people, but never attack someone directly for their opinions (unless they're any of the above points in which case you should call them out for their behaviour /gen)

• i generally try and avoid drama; if someone starts drama or upheaval without a good reason for it, i probably won't want to interact with them.

• no TERFs.

• supporting JK Rowling in any way is a no-go; i'll make a small exception for neurodivergents who have harry potter as their spin or hyfix if you understand that she's not a good person or a person to idolize. the platform and influence she has actively endangers people like me, and spending money on stuff related to her intellectual property is more money into the pocket of a woman who wants people like me dead /srs

• against tone indicators; this is not the same as not using them! they would be appreciated ofc but the issue arises when people think they're "dumb" which i staunchly disagree with.

• supporting cringe culture. let people enjoy what they wanna enjoy unless it's actively harmful!

• against age regression -- it's a valid coping mechanism, not a "k*nk". agere is also not the same as abdl or stuff like that which i don't agree with.

• just be nice! disagreements should never mean hatred, keep an open mind even when you don't like something.