To Anyone Who Feels Lonely At School

Having no friends in school can take a toll on you sometimes, no shit. But if you ever find yourself feeling down or having doubts about your personality based on this, I just want you to know that the amount of friends you have or your popularity in general doesn't reflect the worth of a person in any sort of way, especially if the judges are entirely comprised of secondary school (or high school, whatever floats your boat lol) students, who can often overlook qualities that are much more important in life.

A very good proof for this: there are some really popular students I know in my school who have bullied multiple other students for no reason, and there are some really nice students I know who either have a really hard time making friends or just only have a few.

It can definitely feel quite depressing at times, and can leave you feeling a bit subhuman other times, but never forget that it more than likely does not mean there is anything wrong with you, no matter what anyone says, as long as you continue to do what you believe in and the second most important point to leave you with is that it does not last forever and as children grow, so does their judgement of a "person worth hanging out with", tbh I don't know much about life after secondary/high school xd, but all I can say for sure is that anyone who says that those years are the best years of your life are either lying to you or have literally not seen a happier moment after the age of 17.

Basically, popularity in school does not determine the worth of a person, but rather other factors that are not necessarily deemed as important by the general public, and it also does not predict the way you will turn out after. I do not know if this helped you or not tbh bc I'm not the best at this kind of stuff ^_^; but these are the things that keep me and others going and if nothing else rings out to you in this blog post, I just want you to remember to never let anyone stop you from doing what you wanna do and I bid you to sleep well when you get there :)

Cheers,
Bigfoot ^_^


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